Asking a general honest question and looking for guidance is not looking to "grab a spotlight on the world stage" but it does sound to me like this is what you were trying to do? I believe the adage is "if you have nothing nice to say do not bother saying something useless?" of course I was paraphrasing.

Bellis Jinx-Rainshilde, Maiden of Misbehaviour

Penned by my hand on the 6th of Ero, in the year 746 AF.